Learn to look at what challenges you as a test, instead of a destructive act to hinder your growth. When you do this you allow others to be them, inside of a growth paradigm where you are a teacher and student. When we learn the master the art of feeling our transgressions we learn to let others learn the mastery of taking a hint at a path or perspective that may not fit right now. But, is there for use at a later date. In short, what I have failed. Is somewhere else as a pass already. Learn to let go, of the failing part so much we are teachers, students and the masters sit above us to remind us of the fairness of learning in all three.