Sometimes, we are limited in choices because of the non-acknowledgment of our past wrongs. No one likes to enter the dark side becomes some skeletons are yours to claim. However; it's the road we have to take when we are here and on the path to our ascending ladder. Whether we did the act that caused pain or was the receiver of said pain to another. In healing we have to acknowledge where we went wrong even if it was just within. Everyone else is not the blame all the time the common denominator in every failed relationship, friendship, marriage, partnership and other important relationships we may consider. We are in fact a the main character at play whether we want to accept it and look at it that way. Being spiritual does not just freedom it's a doorway to finding you the hard way. So, you pay a much heavier price; when you are not fair to the rules. In turn you must go back to the beginning workings to strengthen and seal those endings for you the right way. Not everyone will accept your apology. But, even still you apologized. You move forward from that incident insight of the new, and relinquish the old in letting go. Processes can be long and lonesome. But, that is what the process is to do; give you a more formal meaning and understanding of the inner strength of the divine living out through you. So, you will correct the mistakes or release that energy either way.