Change is inevitable, sometimes we resent it; due to lack of experience in which the direction may push us. However, that is the purpose of change to get you ready to see the world from a different perspective. If we take away just the people who have hurt us and only allowed in the people who mad us happy how would it be that we learned anything. Emotions are teachers, and feeling those will allow you the WILLINGNESS to embrace change. Despite what you may in fact believe is true, we are where we need to be when we need to be there. Allow your heart to guide you. Smooth sailing...